In need of a Bridesmaid Questionnaire?
So you’re getting married!? Congratulations! That’s super exciting. Your wedding is one of the biggest days of your life. But there’s a lot of planning that needs to be done before you get there.
There is so much that goes into wedding planning. Where will the venue be? What type of flowers do you want?
Food picking, cake picking, making invites – planning for your wedding can be exciting, but it can also be a little overwhelming.
The goal is to keep things as simple as possible. And one thing we can’t forget about when planning our wedding is our bridesmaids! And while planning for our bridesmaids may seem simple, there’s actually a lot that goes into it.
What are their dress sizes? What are their shoe sizes? What about pajamas? The list goes on and on.
Luckily, we’ve done some of the work for you. We’ve created your own personal bridesmaid questionnaire so that you can have all of the information you need at your fingertips!
How does the Bridesmaid Questionnaire work?
It’s pretty simple. This bridesmaid questionnaire is jam packed with questions that you will need to know about your bridesmaids while planning your wedding.
All you need to do is download the copy, change the color scheme to your liking, and maybe amend some of the questions to suit your personal needs.
From there, print it off and send a copy to each of your bridesmaids. Have them return it to you as soon as possible and keep it for when you need the information. This way, you’ll have all of the details you need at your fingertips and won’t be left scourging at the very last minute.
So without further ado, here are some questions you might need to know about your bridesmaids for the big day:
Bridesmaid Questionnaire Questions
Name:
____________________________________
Phone Number:
____________________________________
Email Address:
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What is your jewelry preference? (Gold, silver, other?)
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What type of jewelry do you prefer? (necklace, rings, earrings, bracelet, etc?)
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Are your ears pierced?
- Yes
- No
What is your t- shirt size?
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What is your sweater size?
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What is your pajama size?
____________________________________
In terms of bridesmaid dresses, would you prefer long or short?
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What color bridesmaid dress would be your preference?
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What is your dress size?
____________________________________
Best dates for selecting bridesmaids dresses?
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Best dates for bridal shower?
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What is your shoe size?
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Are you able to willing/able heels (yes or no)?
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Do you prefer heels or flats?
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What is your honest budget for a bridesmaid dress?
- $50-$100
- $100-$200
- $200-$300
- $300-$400
- $500 +
Would you like to have your makeup done professionally on the day of the wedding?
- Yes
- No, I’d prefer to do my own
Would you like to have your hair done professionally on the day of the wedding?
- Yes
- No, I’d prefer to do my own
Are you more comfortable wearing your hair up or down?
- Up
- Down
- Doesn’t matter
Do you have any allergies that a makeup or hair artist should know about? If yes, please provide specifics:
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Please list (if any) your alcoholic beverages of choice:
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What are your favorite foods?
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What are your favorite non-alcoholic beverages of choice?
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What is your favorite caffeinated beverage?
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What are your favorite dessert choices?
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What are your favorite snacks?
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What is your favorite color?
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What song needs to be on your getting ready playlist?
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Are you willing to spend the night before in the same room? Or do you prefer your own accommodations?
- Spend the night
- Own accommodations
- I’ll sleep anywhere!
How much are you comfortable spending on accommodations?
- $50-$100
- $100-$200
- $200-$300
- $300-$400
- $500 +
Do you have any recommendations for the bachelorette party?
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How involved would you like to be in planning the bachelorette party?
- I’m sorry, I’d love to come but don’t have time to help with planning
- I can help a little
- I’d love to be fully involved
Are you able to help with any DIY projects?
- Yes, count me in!
- I’m sorry, no.
What are you most comfortable wearing while we get ready?
- Pajamas
- Robe
- Other
Would you be willing to travel for my bachelorette party?
- Yes
- No
How much are you comfortable spending each day for a bachelorette trip?
- $50-$100 per day
- $100-$200 per day
- $200-$300 per day
- $300-$400 per day
Are you comfortable with flying or would you prefer to go somewhere within driving distance?
- I’m good to fly
- Driving only please
What are some activities you’d like to see us do if we went on a bachelorette trip? (ie. spa date, beach date, boating, clubbing, etc)
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How much are you comfortable spending on activities?
- $50-$100 per day
- $100-$200 per day
- $200-$300 per day
- $300-$400 per day
How much notice do you need to book days off of work for the bachelorette party?
______________________________
Will you be able to attend the wedding rehearsal?
- Yes
- No
Are you able to help with anything that may arise on the big day?
- Yes
- No
What are your favorite flowers?
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Do you have any dietary restrictions? If yes, please specify:
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Are there any concerns that you have?
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Is there anything else that has not been questioned that you would like me to know?
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Bridesmaid Survey Questions
- Will you be my bridesmaid? (The most important question!)
- Are you available on the wedding date and willing to commit to the responsibilities of being a bridesmaid?
- Do you have any financial constraints or concerns that I should consider when planning bridesmaid-related expenses?
- Are you comfortable with the bridesmaid dress style and color that I have in mind?
- What are your thoughts on the bridesmaid accessories (shoes, jewelry, etc.) that I’m considering?
- Are there any specific hair and makeup preferences or limitations that I should know about?
- How involved would you like to be in the wedding planning process? Do you have any specific skills or talents that could be helpful?
- Are you comfortable with attending pre-wedding events such as the bridal shower, bachelorette party, and rehearsal dinner?
- Are there any personal or professional commitments that might affect your availability or ability to fulfill bridesmaid duties?
- Do you have any travel restrictions or concerns related to attending the wedding or any associated events?
- What are your preferences regarding accommodation arrangements for the wedding weekend, if applicable?
- Are there any dietary restrictions or preferences that I should consider when planning the wedding menu or related events?
- Are you willing and available to help with any DIY projects or wedding-related tasks, such as assembling favors or addressing invitations?
- How comfortable are you with public speaking or participating in the wedding ceremony (e.g., reading a passage or giving a toast)?
- Are there any concerns or questions you have about your role as a bridesmaid that I haven’t addressed?
So there you have it, once you’ve had your bachelorettes fill out this survey, you’ll have all the information you need at your fingertips. This will help you better plan for your bachelorette party, your wedding shower, and for the big day itself.
It’s important that you include your bridesmaids in the planning process, especially if you are expecting them to pay for their own trips/items.
Be sure to give them plenty of heads up on related costs and dates so that they can save and plan accordingly too!
Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.