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Okay, first of all, let us say that you can’t make someone fall in love with you (we wish it was that easy). Unless there’s some magical spell out there that we don’t know about, love isn’t something that you can force.

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Nor is it something that you want to force. You want someone to love you for you. 

How To Make Him Fall In Love With You

With that being said, there are qualities that men find super attractive that can increase the chances that he will fall in love with you.

Women are mystical creatures (or so men say), but men are pretty simple to figure out. Most of them all want the same thing. So what is it that men are looking for?

What Do Men Find Attractive In Women

Here are 10 qualities that men find super attractive that will help them notice you and fall in love. 


We’ve all met them before – the girl that gets all the guys. Every time she walks by, she draws attention. No one’s ever said no to her before. How does she do it?

We can guarantee that all of these girls have one thing in common – confidence! Confidence is key! Men love a good challenge. And a woman who is confident knows exactly what she deserves. It gives a man something to work for – and men love that! 


While it might seem like guys like an easy win, the exact opposite is true. An easy win might win the guy for a night, but it’s the girls who present a challenge that make the man fall in love.

Confidence and self-respect go hand in hand. Know your worth and don’t stand for less. If you know your own worth, he will know it too. Make him work for your love and don’t settle. 


As women, it’s easy to judge ourselves – especially our looks and our body. And we may often think that men are judging us too. But here’s a little secret – you don’t have to be a Victoria Secret model to get a man’s attention or make him fall in love with you.

All you need to do is take care of yourself. Learn to do your makeup (or rock a makeup free face), do your hair on the daily, dress for your body shape. It’s not always about your features – it’s about how you present them. 

Be Kind

No one wants to date a Karen. Kindness is a huge turn on for men. Treat people as you would want them to treat you. Better yet, go out of your way to be kind and friendly to others.

A loving and nurturing woman will make a great mother one day – and men subconsciously seek out women that have these qualities. 

Easy Going

Some people think that men like women that are high maintenance. And in some cases, maybe that’s true.

A woman that’s high maintenance generally takes good care of herself and has a high sense of self worth, which as we learned above, men love. But while high maintenance women might get the man, it’s unlikely that they’ll keep him. 

No man wants to become a prisoner to his partner’s needs or desires. A woman that is laid back and goes with the flow is so much more attractive for a long term partner. Ditch the attitude and win the man. 


The dumb girl act? That’s so last year. Intellect is the new sexy. Get the grades. Read the books. Watch the news. The more you have in your brain, the more you’ll have to talk about.

And the more you talk, the more you connect. The more you connect, the more you’ll fall in love. You’re smart – you get the point! 


There’s no doubt that we’re initially attracted to a partner based on looks. But eventually, looks will fade and what’s left is the emotional and intellectual connection that we have with one another.

But in order to build a long lasting connection with someone, we need to bond with them on a deeper level. This means we need to be trusting, open, and willing to dive into hearts to have deeper, more serious discussions. 


A woman that can fend for herself is super sexy. If you’re younger, you might not be in the heat of your career quite yet.

But having the drive, ambition, and passion to reach your goals is very attractive to a man. Putting them into action and seeing them through? Even more attractive!


Men don’t want a woman who is hot one minute and cold the next. It’s not attractive. If you want to make a man fall for you, be consistent with your love.

Let him know exactly what you like and don’t like, and make your expectations clear. Give as much love as you expect to get.

No one wants to be unsure about your feelings towards them. Be consistent, open, and honest with your man. 

Be Yourself

Most importantly, just be yourself. We’ll be completely honest – he might not fall in love with you.

But if he falls in love with you pretending to be someone else, is he really in love with you anyways? (We know, that was deep). 

But really – just do you. If he doesn’t fall in love with you for who you really are, he wasn’t meant to be yours in the first place. There are millions of fish in the sea (literally).

If he’s not Mr. Right, there will be another Mr. Right to take his place shortly. 

Qualities Men Look For In Women

  1. Compatibility: Men often look for compatibility in terms of shared interests, values, and goals.
  2. Sense of humor: A good sense of humor is often highly valued as it helps create a positive and enjoyable atmosphere.
  3. Intelligence: Many men appreciate women who are intellectually stimulating and able to engage in meaningful conversations.
  4. Kindness and compassion: Men often value women who show empathy, kindness, and genuine care for others.
  5. Confidence: Confidence can be attractive, as it reflects self-assurance and a positive self-image.
  6. Independence: Men may appreciate women who are independent and have their own interests, goals, and aspirations.
  7. Supportiveness: Being supportive of their partner’s endeavors, dreams, and personal growth is often valued by men.
  8. Trustworthiness: Trust is an essential aspect of any relationship, and men appreciate women who are trustworthy and honest.
  9. Emotional intelligence: The ability to understand and express emotions effectively can contribute to a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
  10. Good communication skills: Men often appreciate women who can communicate openly, honestly, and effectively.
  11. Physical attraction: Physical attraction plays a role in initial attraction for many men, although it varies from person to person.
  12. Compatibility in lifestyle and values: Similar lifestyles and shared values can contribute to a strong and harmonious partnership.
  13. Ambition and drive: Men may appreciate women who are motivated, ambitious, and have a sense of purpose in their lives.
  14. Respect: Mutual respect is crucial in any relationship, and men value women who treat them and others with respect.
  15. Emotional support: Men may appreciate women who can provide emotional support during challenging times.

What is the number one quality that men look for in a woman?

Well, that’s a loaded question because all men are different. But while most women think what men want is a woman with good looks, what they really want is a woman who is smart, caring, confident, kind, trustworthy, and supportive! 

“But he’s out of my league!”

There’s no such thing as being “out of someone’s league”. We are all equals and all beautiful in our own sense.  You have no idea what he is attracted to. Some men are attracted to thin, tiny women.

Others are attracted to large, busty women. Every man has his thing. Be confident – and if he doesn’t notice you, he’s not right for you! 

Love is a complex and beautiful journey, and while it’s impossible to guarantee that you can make someone fall in love with you, there are certainly ways to foster a deeper connection and create an environment for love to flourish.

The most important thing is to be true to yourself, embrace your own unique qualities, and radiate positivity and confidence.

By being kind, compassionate, and supportive, you can create a strong foundation for a meaningful relationship.

Remember, love cannot be forced or manipulated—it is a magical bond that grows organically.

So focus on being the best version of yourself, and let the power of genuine connection and chemistry pave the way to a love story that is truly meant to be. Keep an open heart, enjoy the journey, and let love find its way to you!

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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