Flirting is a powerful part of dating. It keeps your spark alive, enhances intimacy and lets your partner know they are appreciated. Flirting via text can sometimes cause apprehension. Many fear coming off as ‘cheesy’ or overly keen. That doesn’t have to be the case! Approach your text flirting with confidence and trust. Don’t overthink it! Be subtle and cheeky rather than obvious. Try these flirty texts for him. Flirty texting is meant to be fun, so avoid anything too serious.
Many of us associate flirty texting with the excitement of a new relationship. However, flirty texting can help keep the spark alive for married or long-term couples too.
What Flirty Texts Can I Send?
There are many positives of flirting via text message including:
- You can create the perfect timing.
- You may feel more open and confident flirting via text as opposed to face-to-face.
- Flirty texts are a quick and easy way of letting your partner know you are thinking of them.
- Create suspense until you next see each other
- If you are in the early stages of your relationship, flirty texts can be the caveat to arrange further dates.
Flirty texts are all about having fun and enjoying your relationship. Try not to get caught up in worries about being misinterpreted or how long the other takes to text back. Just enjoy the experience!
Flirty Texts To Send Him
Here are a few flirty texting ideas to get you started:
Everyone loves a compliment! Make his day by letting him know how good he looked when you last saw him. A detailed compliment regarding a specific feature is more meaningful.
-“Can’t stop thinking about your sexy smile!”
-“Wish you were at the gym with me now, so I could stare at those pecs!”
-“All I can think about is your
-“Can’t believe I let you walk out of the house in that blue shirt! All the girls are going to be staring.”
Good Morning Texts
Good morning texts can be one of the most sweet ways to get you on his mind for the day. Who doesn’t like waking up to a cute text from your love in the morning to start off your day!
-“Good Morning, Handsome!”
-“Couldn’t fall asleep for a bit last night…I was up thinking of you…(or whatever memory you have with him)”
-“Wanted to start your day off letting you know how much you are loved!”
-“Can’t wait till the days when I don’t have to text you Good Morning, I can just roll over!”
-“Hoping my day goes fast, so I can skip to the part where I get to see you!”
I Miss You Texts
Sweet, short, and to the point, an ‘I miss you’ text lets your other half know you are thinking of them, and can’t wait until your next day. ‘I can’t stop thinking about you’ also works well.
-“Why does _____ have to be so far away?!”
-“One of these days, I won’t have to miss you so much!”
-“I wish today was Saturday!” (whatever day you’re suppose to see each other again.
-“I can hear you missing me all the way over here.”
-“You + Me Together, would be nice right about now.”
This could be something sexual or a fun dating experience. Let them know the experience is on your mind, how much you enjoyed your time together, and how much you want to re-create it soon!
-“Remember that amazing kiss we had?”
-“I walked by _____ today, and remembered the last time we were there.”
-“Can’t stop thinking about your birthday night!”
-“Want to recreate _______?”
-“Remember that time you told me you loved me/we got engaged/we got married?!”
-“All my favorite memories have you in them!”
-“I can’t remember a time I laughed so much than last night.”
This could be an activity, a kiss or something sexual depending on where you are at in the relationship. You will have him counting down the days until your next date! If you already have upcoming plans, tease him about what the night my hold.
-“You are going to love what I’m wearing tonight.”
-“When I see you I want to…”
-“Can’t stop thinking about kissing you tonight.”
-“Just wait to see what I have planned for you after the movie.”
-“Not sure I’m going to make it through the whole game without trying to steal you away.”
-“Thinking about skipping dinner and just going straight to dessert!”
A playful and flirty text where you tease him a bit can be a great way to get the conversation going, and him thinking about you. Don’t make these serious or mean at all. Keep it cute and lighthearted.
-“It’s so cute you think you can go all day without thinking of me.”
-“Ok, we know you’re bad at texting, but how are you at kissing?!”
-“You know you want to ask me out, so just do it already!”
Ask Him Out
Feeling bold? Simply ask him on another date. Men find it really refreshing when women take the reins!
-“You + Me…Saturday night?!”
-“Have any room in your weekend for me?”
-“My turn to plan our date.”
-“What are you doing Thursday?”
-“I thought I could wait until you asked me out again, but I’m too impatient…Friday night sound good?”
Wish You Were Here
This can be in a cute or sexy way. It may lead to more ‘adult’ texting or planning your next get together.
-“This view is amazing! Would be 100 times better if you were with me.”
-“Feeling a bit frisky tonight…wish you weren’t so far away.”
-“I have a day all to myself, but now I just wish you were with me.”
You can make every day texting more flirty by adding emojis such as the wink or heart. Other emojis can hint at something sexual, without you having to come right out and say it!
During The Date
Feeling brave? Text him something sexy during the evening. This will increase the sexual tension and add a real thrill to the night!
-“I have nothing on under this dress.”
-“I can’t wait to get you home.”
_”Let’s do dessert at home!”
Create A Mental Image
‘I’m just in the bath’ or ‘I just got out of the shower’ are flirty without being direct to the point. He’ll get a mental picture which will leave him wanting more!
Go for something subtle, like a selfie of your next date night outfit. The goal here is to tease, rather than showing him everything!
-“Is this photo too risqué to post on IG?”
-“Trying to decide which dress to wear.”
This Reminds Me Of You
It could be a food, movie or song that has made you think of your partner. These are cute things you have in common, and sharing lets him know he’s on your mind.
-“Just heard a song on the radio that sounds just like you!”
-“Every time I go shopping now, I find things that make me think of you.”
-“This shirt would look so sexy on you.”
-“I was watching a comedy show, and kept thinking he’s not as funny as you!”
Inside jokes amongst couples are great for bonding as it is something personal, only the two of you share.
I had a dream about you last night’. Again, this lets him know you are thinking of him, but doesn’t give away too much.
Day After Date Text
These messages are sweet and indicate your interest. These texts can also gently nudge him into asking you out again!
-“I really enjoyed last night.”
-“I love spending time with you.”
-“Can’t stop thinking about yesterday!”
‘You are the first thing I thought about when I woke up’
If you haven’t spent the night together, a cute good morning text will always go down well, and you’ll put a spring in his step for the whole day!
Send a Meme
Struggling to put your feelings into words? Or perhaps feeling a little shy? A meme is a funny, light-hearted way of letting someone know you are on their mind. There are thousands of options online so you are bound to find something that suits you and the message you want to get across.
For a completely different spin on flirty texting, why not suggest a game? Games are a geat way to create a bonding experience and find out more about each other. This could be a simple text back-and-forth such as truth or dare, would you rather or never have I ever. Alternatively, check out our other article- Fun Apps and Online Games for Couples.
Flirty text messages can be a wonderful way to maintain that spark (especially if you are a long-distance couple). However, they aren’t a substitute for face-to-face intimacy. Keep your communication varied and ensure you plan date nights which are device-free. Most importantly, don’t take flirty texting too seriously. Have fun and enjoy yourself!