He Said, She Said Bridal Shower Game: {with Questions To Steal}

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Looking for some fun and easy bridal shower games to play at the wedding shower? The He Said, She Said Bridal Shower Game is perfect for the occasion!

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Throwing a bridal shower is a great way to celebrate the bride-to-be and have some lighthearted fun. First come up with a unique bridal shower theme, and then you can add fun games and activities.

Playing games and holding competitions are essential for any proper bridal shower. Even simple games can bring a lot of laughter and joy to a room!

A fun bridal shower game to play is “He Said, She Said”. Read below for the rules and requirements for this fun activity!

How to Play The “He Said She Said” Game

A cute, interactive bridal shower game to play, this guessing game is all about figuring out who said what.

The guests will be supplied with a list of questions, phrases, or even characteristics and must decide whether it belongs to the bride or groom.

It is a fun way for your guests to get to know the bride and groom as individuals and as a couple. This game has now evolved to include many different types of questions, not just quotes from the couple. 

You can even take these Wedding Shoe Game Questions and add them in to your own!

Set up

You will need to print out the list of questions on cardstock to hand out to all of your guests.

You can create and design it yourself or purchase pre-made gorgeous cards here from Amazon, or from shops like Etsy and Zazzle.

If you want to include more personal or funny questions then it is best to create it yourself.

On average there are usually 10 to 15 questions. Use free software like Canva to create aesthetic designs and then get them printed at your nearest print shop.

Don’t forget to supply everyone with pens so they can mark their decisions. 

Additionally, you have to get a prize! It is a competition after all. The person who gets the most correct can win a small prize. It is always a good idea to buy extra prizes in case there are multiple winners. 

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There are various ways to play this game. You could have everyone gather around and go over each answer like bingo; collect the filled out cards to tally up separately; or even make a slideshow presentation where the guests can call out answers.

You don’t need to print out cards if you don’t want to.  

Guests will either read or hear the different statements and decide which individual it applies to.

They can circle the symbol that represents the individual or call out their answer to the group. Regardless of which method you use to play, your guests will have a fun time trying to win the prize.

Bonus Ideas

Make this game even more fun by filming the bride and groom separately and playing their answers after the game is over and the answers are being read off.

Another fun idea would be to record the couple answering these questions together, and playing their fun conversations for the party.

If this is a co-ed party, have the bride and groom sit back to back and answer the questions together by raising their hands or pointing at each other.

He Said, She Said Questions

The most popular questions are ones about the relationship such as:

  • Who proposed? 
  • Who said “I love you” first? 
  • Who met the in-laws first? 
  • Who will cry at the wedding?
  • Who’s more romantic? 
  • Who was more nervous on their first date?
  • Who plans the dates? 
  • Who picked the first dance song?
  • Who’s more likely to be the one to start a conversation about having children? 
  • Who is more likely to want a big wedding?

  • Who asked the other out?
  • Who made the first move?
  • Who is more likely to decide what to eat for dinner?
  • Who brought up marriage first?
  • Who loves the other more?
  • Who has the crazier family?
  • Who planned more of the wedding?
  • Who does the grocery shopping?
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Try to think of some funny or clever ones as well:

  • Who is more likely to get a traffic ticket?
  • Who has the craziest family?
  • Who is more of the homebody?
  • Who spends all the money?
  • Who is the biggest baby when they’re sick?
  • Who is more likely to be the first one up in the morning? 
  • Who is the better cook? 
  • Who is more likely to forget important dates? 
  • Who is more romantic?
  • Who is more likely to initiate a hug or kiss? 

  • Who is more likely to be the one to say sorry after a fight? 
  • Who is more likely to plan a surprise vacation? 
  • Who is more likely to be the one to initiate a conversation about relationship issues? 
  • Who is more talkative?
  • Who is more likely to be the one to sing in the shower? 
  • Who has the bigger sweet tooth? 
  • Who’s more likely to decline an invitation to a party? 
  • Who’s more organized? 
  • Who’s the better driver? 

  • Who is more of a morning person?
  • Who is more likely to forget an anniversary?
  • Who is more of a neat freak?
  • Who is the better cook?
  • Who is more likely to plan the vacation?
  • Who is the first one up on a weekend?
  • Who is the hopeless romantic?
  • Who’s more likely to hog the blankets?
  • Who’s more likely to eat the last slice?
  • Who is more of the handyman?
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Another way to play this game, is to write “I” statements…and have the guests circle “Bride or Groom”.

  • “I said I love you first”. — Bride or Groom
  • “I am planning the honeymoon.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am the night owl.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am the better driver.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I need the bigger closet.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am the responsible one.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am the neat freak.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am most likely to start my own business.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am the reader.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I brought up having kids first.” —Bride or Groom

  • “I am the funny one.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am more likely to cry at a commercial.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I picked our first dance song.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am more likely to rearrange the furniture in a room.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I binge watch shows faster.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am more adventurous.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I spend more money.” —Bride or Groom
  • “I am more likely to burst into song randomly?” —Bride or Groom
  • “I tell the better dad jokes.” —Bride or Groom

Keep the game moving with funny questions, questions about the relationship, and questions about the wedding. It’s fun to find out some things many people might not know about the couple.

When everyone is done guessing, read the questions out-loud, and have the bride answer the question herself in front of everyone.

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Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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