Sexy Date Ideas

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Looking for some sexy date ideas? Below are a few that can help.

When it comes to spicing up your love life, nothing does it better than a romantic date. Whether you’re in a new relationship, have been in a relationship for several years, or have been married for decades, relationships need romance.

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You need to make time for your partner. And that means dating your partner regularly.

But there’s all different types of dates out there – first dates, relaxing dates, adventurous dates – and today we’re talking all things sexy dates!

Sexy Dates

That’s right – we’re talking spicy! Hot! Sexy!

We’ll talk about some of our favorite sexy dates, where some will have just a little spice (mildly sexy) and others will be straight up blushing sexy (we mean steamy shower sexy). 

So get your water ready – we’re about to heat it up here. Let’s go!

Make Some Steam in the Shower

We said we were talking hot – so let’s start off burning! There’s few things in this world sexier than taking a hot shower together.

For husbands and wives – you know how this goes – don’t hold back the passion. 

For a twist in the shower, you can take a steamy shower in your lingerie or underwear too.

And if you wanna mix things up a bit – go out of the norm and have a shower in your full clothing. It’s hot, spicy, and will give you a good laugh all at the same time!

Bubble Bath

Showers aren’t the only way to steam up your home – bubble baths are hot too! And sexy – very, very sexy. Grab some bubbles, throw in your favorite relaxing mineral salts, and get ready for a night of sexy relaxation. 

If you want to make your bath even sexier, throw on some dim lit lighting, light up the candles, and play some soft music in the background.

Then, get yourselves in the mood by giving each other a nice relaxing massage before hopping out of the tub and under the blankets!

This is one of our favorite at home spa dates.


We’ve all seen the movie scene – It’s set in a bar – Girl meets boy. Boy meets girl. But they’ve actually been married for years.

Well, now is the time to recreate your own meeting!

You may have been married for years, but you can always pretend otherwise!

Dress up nice and sexy like you would have before you got married, head to the bar separately, and pick each other up!

Don’t be afraid to use your best pickup lines or play hard to get! The key here is to really use your imagination.

Create backstories for your characters – you can be anyone you want to be!

How would you react if you were just meeting your husband/wife for the first time? Make it happen!

Role Playing

Come on – you knew it was coming! We couldn’t have an article about sexy dates without a little bit of role playing!

Did someone say sexy nurse? Yes please! Or maybe a hot and steamy firefighter? Mmhmm! 

The best thing about role play is that you can be anything that you want to be – don’t be afraid to talk about your wildest fantasies and bring them to life!

Sexy Selfies

Get ready to dress up in your sexiest lingerie and spend the night with your own personal photographer. Take turns taking photos of each other – you can make them as sexy or PG as you want. Maybe even make your own Boudoir photography session?

Then take some photos together for your own couples photo shoot. (Just be sure to keep them where the kids will never find them!)

Sex Workshop

Time to learn the art of sex and seduction together! There’s tons of different sex workshops out there that can help you learn more about each other and spice up your sex life.

Working one-on-one with Sexperts can help you learn how to re-fuel each other’s fire and reignite the passion in your bedroom. 

Visit a Sex Shop

Looking for some sexy bedroom inspiration? There’s few better places to find it than a sex shop!

Not only can the sex shop help you and your partner learn more about each other’s passions and desires, but it can also be a great bonding experience and a wonderful way to experiment with some new things in the bedroom!

Not married or in a long term relationship? No problem! The sex shop can be a great place for dating couples to break the ice. You don’t have to buy anything, but it’s a good way to break out of your comfort zone together. 

A Sexy Game 

Yahtzee. Twister. Poker. You can make pretty much any game naughty!

And if you’re looking for a sexy date night, this is a great way to save some money and get hot at home.

You can also get some of your own sexy games at the sex shop – sexy dice, bedroom battle, Monogomy – there’s tons of games out there that will keep you entertained for the entire night!

Or try a game from our list of Relationship Question Games like:

Truth or Drink Questions For Couples

“Never Have I Ever…” Questions

Paint Night

“Paint me like one of your French girls”. 

From the moment this line is said, you know romance is in the future! Luckily for you, painting is something anyone can do! You don’t have to be an artist to make it sexy.

Put on your best lingerie (or don’t) and spend the night painting each other! Either it will make you feel super sexy or give you a good laugh. Either way, it’s a win!

It’s a fun twist on one of our favorite dates: paint and sip date night.

Of course, painting isn’t the only type of art that’s sexy. Ever seen the movie Ghost? There are few movie scenes more romantic than Swayze and the love of his life creating pottery together. So we say, go ahead – get your Swayze on. And while you’re at it, try out some dirty dancing too.

If you’re looking to spice up your love life, try some of these romantic but sexy dates. It’s sure to bring you and your partner closer together in more ways than one!

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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