101 Never Have I Ever Questions For Couples

Try these fun “never have I ever” questions for couples on your next date night!

There’s lots of relationship questions games that you and your partner can play to pass time. But one game that stands the test of time is Never Have I Ever.

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We’re sure you’ve heard of it, but in the case that you haven’t, here’s how to play:

How to Play Never Have I Ever

Start by having both partners hold up their right hand. The first player states something that they have never done by saying, “Never have I ever _____”.

If the other player has done it, they have to put a finger down. If they haven’t done it, their finger stays up.

For example, the first player may say “Never have I ever gone skinny dipping”. If the partner has gone skinny dipping, they put down a finger. Then you switch turns. The first person to put all of their fingers down loses the game.

Why Play Never Have I Ever?

Never Have I Ever is a great game because it is universal. You can play it at a party with your best friends or you can play it at home alone with your partner.

The best part about playing it with your partner is that it really allows you to get to know them better.

Never Have I Ever teaches you about things that your partner has or has not done, which in turn gives you more insight into their personality.

For example, if your partner says they’ve been skinny dipping, you might assume that they’re the adventurous type. If they’ve ever been in trouble with the law, you might want to consider why.

The more Never Have I Ever Questions you ask, the more insight you gain.

And this is what makes it a great game for couples – especially newer couples who are still getting to know each other.

101 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

If you’re stuck for questions to ask your partner, don’t be! From mild, to medium, to hot and steamy, we have 101 questions to ask:

Never Have I Ever gone skinny dipping
Never Have I Ever had a threesome
Never Have I Ever cheated on a partner
Never Have I Ever traveled by myself
Never Have I Ever got a tattoo

Never Have I Ever got a piercing
Never Have I Ever peed my pants as an adult
Never Have I Ever kissed two people in the same night
Never Have I Ever streaked nude in public
Never Have I Ever ghosted someone

Never Have I Ever broken a bone
Never Have I Ever had surgery
Never Have I Ever gone on a blind date
Never Have I Ever had a crush on a teacher
Never Have I Ever been arrested

Never Have I Ever lied to a police office
Never Have I Ever been on television
Never Have I Ever driven drunk
Never Have I Ever had a crush on a best friend
Never Have I Ever had a crush on a partners friends

Never Have I Ever stood up a date
Never Have I Ever used someone else’s toothbrush
Never Have I Ever kissed my best friend
Never Have I Ever used drugs
Never Have I Ever dumped someone through text message

Never Have I Ever dined and dashed
Never Have I Ever served in court
Never Have I Ever been a jury member
Never Have I Ever got a speeding ticket
Never Have I Ever been to jail

Never Have I Ever had a one night stand
Never Have I Ever hooked up with an ex
Never Have I Ever been in a fist fight
Never Have I Ever smoked a cigarette
Never Have I Ever shoplifted

Never Have I Ever been married
Never Have I Ever crashed a wedding
Never Have I Ever used a fake ID
Never Have I Ever been in the ocean
Never Have I Ever been snowboarding/skiing

Never Have I Ever been mugged
Never Have I Ever snuck out of the house
Never Have I Ever been ghosthunting
Never Have I Ever used a fake ID
Never Have I Ever been in love

Never Have I Ever had done the deed in a public place
Never Have I Ever snooped through someone’s phone
Never Have I Ever lied about my name or phone number
Never Have I Ever had surgery
Never Have I Ever been cheated on

Never Have I Ever saved someone’s life
Never Have I Ever had a near drowning experience
Never Have I Ever given a lap dance
Never Have I Ever got a lap dance
Never Have I Ever called my partner the wrong name

Never Have I Ever won a significant amount of money when gambling
Never Have I Ever had a near death experience
Never Have I Ever been in a car accident
Never Have I Ever kissed someone of the same sex
Never Have I Ever met a celebrity

Never Have I Ever peed in a public pool
Never Have I Ever been to Disneyland
Never Have I Ever been to a nude beach
Never Have I Ever stayed in a relationship for the wrong reasons
Never Have I Ever had Chicken Pox

Never Have I Ever hitchhiked
Never Have I Ever picked up a hitchhiker
Never Have I Ever faked an orgasm
Never Have I Ever fallen asleep while doing the deed
Never Have I Ever seen a ghost

Never Have I Ever seen a UFO
Never Have I Ever had an incident with road rage
Never Have I Ever eaten a bug
Never Have I Ever got a tattoo I regretted
Never Have I Ever got a piercing

Never Have I Ever started a false rumor
Never Have I Ever told a secret I vowed to keep
Never Have I Ever flirted my way out of a ticket
Never Have I Ever been to a strip club
Never Have I Ever sent a dirty pic

Never Have I Ever left a meal without paying
Never Have I Ever been part of a protest
Never Have I Ever been part of a scientific study
Never Have I Ever had a friend with benefits
Never Have I Ever had a crush on a cartoon character

Never Have I Ever spent the night without a home
Never Have I Ever had a crush on a friend’s parent
Never Have I Ever worn someone else’s underwear
Never Have I Ever had an injury in the bedroom
Never Have I Ever had stitches

Never Have I Ever drank alone
Never Have I Ever slept with someone I just met
Never Have I Ever tried psychedelics
Never Have I Ever set something on fire on accident
Never Have I Ever danced in the rain

Never Have I Ever joined the mile high club
Never Have I Ever taken money without permission
Never Have I Ever used handcuffs
Never Have I Ever donated to a charity
Never Have I Ever volunteered
Never Have I Ever liked someone as much as I like you

Never Have I Ever Relationship Questions

These questions are a great way for couples to learn more about each other and to discuss their relationship.

Whether you are newly dating or have been in a long-term relationship, these never have I ever questions will help you get to know each other better and strengthen your connection.

Make sure to keep this game light-hearted and discuss any potential problems if you’re talking about your own relationship.

Never have I ever kept a secret from my partner.
Never have I ever been jealous of my partner’s success.
Never have I ever lied to my partner about something significant.
Never have I ever been tempted to cheat on my partner.
Never have I ever hidden something from my partner to avoid an argument.

Never have I ever resented something my partner did or said.
Never have I ever felt neglected or ignored by my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t support me.
Never have I ever been embarrassed by my partner in public.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t listen to me.

Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t understand me.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t appreciate me.
Never have I ever felt like I was putting more effort into the relationship than my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was too controlling.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was too possessive.

Never have I ever felt like my partner was too clingy.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was too critical.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was too distant.
Never have I ever felt like I had to hide my true self from my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t make me a priority.

Never have I ever felt like I didn’t trust my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t trust me.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t have my back.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t respect me.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t value my opinion.

Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t make me feel special.
Never have I ever felt like I had to censor myself around my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t make me feel loved.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t make me feel desired.
Never have I ever felt like my partner didn’t make me feel valued.

Never have I ever felt like I was sacrificing too much for my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was sacrificing too much for me.
Never have I ever felt like I was compromising too much in the relationship.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was compromising too much in the relationship.
Never have I ever felt like I was the only one trying to make things work in the relationship.

Never have I ever felt like my partner was the only one trying to make things work in the relationship.
Never have I ever felt like I was in an unequal relationship.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was in an unequal relationship.
Never have I ever felt like I was being taken for granted in the relationship.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was being taken for granted in the relationship.

Never have I ever felt like I was being emotionally manipulated by my partner.
Never have I ever felt like my partner was being emotionally manipulated by me.

Never Have I Ever Questions Clean

Never have I ever lied to someone.
Never have I ever cheated on a test.
Never have I ever stolen something.
Never have I ever cheated on a partner.
Never have I ever tried drugs.

Never have I ever gotten into a physical fight.
Never have I ever lied to get out of trouble.
Never have I ever broken the law.
Never have I ever gone to work/school drunk or hungover.
Never have I ever lied about my age.

Never have I ever cheated on a diet.
Never have I ever watched an entire season of a TV show in one sitting.
Never have I ever regretted something I posted online.
Never have I ever eaten something off the floor.
Never have I ever been rejected.

Never have I ever stolen food from a grocery store.
Never have I ever lied about my job or education on a dating app.
Never have I ever cheated at a game.
Never have I ever been in debt.
Never have I ever lied on a job application.

Never have I ever been arrested.
Never have I ever been fired from a job.
Never have I ever cheated on a quiz with a friend.
Never have I ever lied to my parents.
Never have I ever tried to sneak into a movie theater.

Never have I ever been to a therapist.
Never have I ever cheated on a homework assignment.
Never have I ever lied to my partner about something significant.
Never have I ever stolen money from someone.
Never have I ever lied about being sick to get out of something.

Never have I ever lied on a resume.
Never have I ever lied about my weight.
Never have I ever cheated on a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Never have I ever stolen someone else’s idea and passed it off as my own.
Never have I ever lied to avoid paying for something.

Never have I ever lied to avoid going to work or school.
Never have I ever lied to get out of a traffic ticket.
Never have I ever lied about having a degree or qualification.
Never have I ever lied about my relationship status on social media.
Never have I ever lied about my age on a dating app.

Never have I ever lied about being single to someone I was interested in.
Never have I ever lied about my salary.
Never have I ever lied about my job title or responsibilities.
Never have I ever lied about my accomplishments.
Never have I ever lied about my hobbies or interests.

Never have I ever lied about my relationship with someone to make myself look better.
Never have I ever lied about my political views.
Never have I ever lied about my religious beliefs.
Never have I ever lied about my health or fitness to impress someone.
Never have I ever lied about my relationship with my family to avoid awkward questions.

Never Have I Ever Questions are a great way to get to know a new partner. If you’re looking for a great game to play – this is the one.

Ask the questions, and then elaborate. This is a great first date game as it not only helps to break the ice, but helps generate important conversions that will allow you to get to know each other on a deeper level.

Sara Kae

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.