Would You Rather Questions For Couples

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Are you looking for some would you rather questions for couples for a fun addition to your date idea? Here’s a fun list to try out with your partner to add to your favorite couples question games.

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Playing games with your partner can have many unexpected benefits such as:

  • Dedicated time spent together
  • Find out how compatible you are as a couple
  • Learn more about your partner
  • And most importantly… have fun!

How To Play Would You Rather… For Couples

Would you rather is a classic conversational game that is perfect for a couples game night.

It involves taking it in turns to ask each other questions, which have two options. You must pick one of the options each time.

There can be no sitting on the fence by answering ‘both’ or ‘neither! 

You can make up questions on the spot, find printables online, or read them off a website.

Would you rather is a completely versatile game. It can be played during a date night at home, over a dinner date, during long journeys or even over the phone.

If you can’t be together, you can even play “Would you Rather” over text, Whatsapp or video chat for a fun long distance relationship game.

This makes it ideal for new couples, long-term couples and long-distance relationships. Would you Rather can be used to kill ten minutes, or as your whole evening’s activity. The possibilities are endless!

Try not to take the game too seriously, and try to remember the main goal here is to have fun and enjoy each other’s company. Keep in mind you are putting your partner on the spot here, so try not to be too judgemental about any of their answers.

If you are looking for deeper conversation, rather than a quickfire round, ask follow up questions (e.g. why is that). This will help you get the most out of the game and feel better connected.

Make it a game night and print out these “would you rather?” cards for couples!

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Getting to Know Each Other Better Questions

Would you Rather is the perfect opportunity to find out a bit more about your partner- what makes them tick, what they prioritize and how they like to spend their spare time.

Ultimately this can help you see how much you have in common and how compatible you are as a couple.

  • Would you rather always be late or always be early?
  • Would you rather visit Asia or Europe?
  • Would you rather get a piercing or a tattoo?
  • Would you rather have an expensive gift or a fun experience?
  • Would you rather go a year without reading or a year without watching TV?
  • Would you rather be an amazing singer or good at sports?
  • Would you rather win the lottery or live twice as long?
  • Would you rather change your eye color or change your hair color?
  • Would you rather give up social media or give up Netflix?
  • Would you rather go to an amusement park or to the beach?
  • Would you rather always be underdressed or always be overdressed? 
  • Would you rather receive daily text messages of love or handwritten letters?
  • Would you rather always wear sliders or boots?
  • Would you rather live in the same apartment for life, or move every month?
  • Would you rather smoke, or not smoke but be told how you’re going to die, but not when?
  • Would you rather go a month without coffee or cake?
  • Would you rather always wear green or pink?
  • Would you rather always forget your keys or phone daily?
  • Would you rather bump into your worst enemy or your ex?
  • Would you rather sleep under the stars or in the most expensive hotel?
  • Would you rather play video or board games?
  • Would you rather eat something rotten on the morning of your wedding day, or lose all of your hair on that morning?
  • Would you rather never drink alcohol again, or never eat chocolate again?
  • Would you rather be gifted your favorite luxury item, or get free food for that price?
  • Would you rather always have dessert or never have it?
  • Would you rather always see your family when you’re not working or your friends?
  • Would you rather be very cold, or super warm?
  • Would you rather have a personal cleaner or a personal chef?
  • Would you rather have strawberry ice cream or Cookies N Cream?

Silly/Hypothetical Questions

Silly & hypothetical questions give you a chance to be a little child-like and let your imaginations run wild.

A few light-hearted questions can be a lot of fun and show you don’t take yourselves too seriously. 

  • Would you rather time travel to 100 years in the past or 100 years into the future?
  • Would you rather have the ability to fly or the ability to become invisible?
  • Would you rather be 3 foot tall or 8 foot tall?
  • Would you rather be constantly tired or constantly hungry?
  • Would you rather be fluent in all languages or be able to talk to animals?
  • Would you rather never age physically or never age mentally?
  • Would you rather be ugly and intelligent or attractive and stupid?
  • Would you rather be the same height as your partner or a foot taller than them?
  • Would you rather your partner always forgets to take out the trash, but washes the dishes, or always does the trash, but leaves dirty dishes everywhere?
  • Would you rather your partner not have a drivers license and pays you for gas when they need you to take them somewhere, or they do have a license but they’re a really bad driver?
  • Would you rather have a partner with really good style, where they constantly get compliments from the opposite gender even if you’re there, or have a partner with awfully bad style?
  • Would you rather have to share a toothbrush or your clothes with your partner?
  • Would you rather your clothes be way too tight or overly baggy?
  • Would you rather have a partner who snores very loudly or drools in their sleep?
  • Would you rather have a partner who uncontrollably burps or farts?
  • Would you rather be stranded on an island together, or separately?
  • Would you rather have no hair on your head or no eyebrows?
  • Would you rather eat meat or fish for the rest of your life?
  • Would you rather go a week without Facebook or Instagram?
  • Would you rather be blind or deaf?
  • Would you rather never drink anything ever again, or never eat anything again, if you’d survive either way?
  • Would you rather never work out again or have to work out every single day forever?
  • Would you rather have bad breath or bad body odor?
  • Would you rather have a fear of heights or a fear of spiders forever?
  • Would you rather have a cat or a dog for a pet?
  • Would you rather travel by public transport for free, or have to walk everywhere?
  • Would you rather never see your immediate family or see them every day?
  • Would you rather be very forgetful every day, or have no social boundaries?
  • Would you rather be heavily overweight or underweight?
  • Would you rather spend a week hanging out with your mom or your dad?
  • Would you rather have a partner who always shaves downstairs, but doesn’t wear deodorant, or doesn’t shave downstairs, but smells gorgeous?
  • Would you rather be woken up with a bucket of water, or a really loud earthquake-like sound happening?
  • Would you rather eat an overly burnt beef burger with the perfect dessert, or a perfectly cooked beef burger, but find a maggot in your dessert?
  • Would you rather your partner tell you you’re the best they’ve ever had, or never know?
  • Would you rather star in your least favorite film and get paid $10,000 or your favorite film for $1,000?

Dirty/Flirty Would You Rather Questions

Intimate questions provide you with a safe place to be completely honest about what you like, what you don’t like and what you would like more of in the bedroom!

This game can take the awkwardness out of talking about your intimate life and give you more confidence to express yourself.

These conversation starters can be a way of flirting with each other and create some exciting tension for when you are finished playing.

  • Would you rather have great conversation with your partner or a great intimate life?
  • Would you rather only ever be able to have foreplay or only be able to just bang it out?
  • Would you rather make mediocre love every day or make amazing love once a year?
  • Would you rather I made the first move or that you did it?
  • Would you rather we took a bath or took a shower together?
  • Would you rather give up your favorite food forever or give up making love?
  • Would you rather dominate your partner or be dominated?
  • Would you rather be intimate in the morning or at night?
  • Would you rather give up kissing or give up cuddling?
  • Would you rather be great in bed, but be very shy, or be bad in bed and super funny?
  • Would you rather always have foreplay, or never have foreplay?
  • Would you rather have a partner with a super low or super high sex drive?
  • Would you rather me always kiss you in public or always hug you in public?
  • Would you rather have a partner who’s a terrible kisser, or you be the terrible kisser?
  • Would you rather always make love fully clothed, or naked?

Would You Rather Relationship Questions

Relationship themed questions are particularly useful for new couples.

Find out what kind of partner they are, who their ideal partner is and how much they are likely to prioritize a relationship in their lives.

  • Would you rather have a clingy partner or an unaffectionate partner?
  • Would you rather love your partner more than they love you or be loved more than you love them?
  • Would you rather break someone’s heart or have your heart broken?
  • Would you rather stay in or go out for date night?
  • Would you rather be in a bad relationship for the rest of your life or be alone for the rest of your life?
  • Would you rather find true love or have unlimited wealth?
  • Would you rather go to a Christmas party or a New Year’s Eve party with your partner?
  • Would you rather have everything in common with your partner or absolutely nothing?
  • Would you rather go on a camel ride, or jump out of a plane together?
  • Would you rather be really messy or overly orderly and clean?
  • Would you rather play soccer or watch soccer?
  • Would you rather date someone who, once they’ve paid their bills, saves or spends a lot?
  • Would you rather have a relationship with someone really intelligent or really funny?
  • Would you rather be unemployed or constantly burnt out and overworking?
  • Would you rather one of you pay the full bill at dinner, or split it equally?
  • Would you rather have to work abroad or from home?
  • Would you rather have a partner who’s introverted or extroverted?
  • Would you rather work out together, or by yourself?
  • Would you rather go a year-long distance overseas or a year living with your partner in the same place you’ve always lived?
  • Would you rather have a partner who drinks or doesn’t drink alcohol?
  • Would you rather be a night owl or an early riser?
  • Would you rather eat out at the most expensive restaurant every weeknight, or have a basic, boring meal every weeknight?
  • Would you rather watch the major classic movies or new trending movies?
  • Would you rather your partner always be an hour late but bring your favorite snack, or on time but overly moody?
  • Would you rather go to a punk rock concert or a classical performance?
  • Would you rather pay for a super expensive taxi to get home late at night together, or take a dirt cheap train that’s full of really drunk people?
  • Would you rather your partner never open up emotionally, or always be extremely emotional?
  • Would you rather have a date night at an intimate, bar, or a buzzing club?
  • Would you rather cook dinner or bake dessert for your partner?
  • Would you rather eat savory or sweet food?
  • Would you rather indulge in a yummy smoothie or a fresh, classic orange juice with breakfast?
  • Would you rather be with someone who has a completely different diet to you, or eats the same meal as you?
  • Would you rather your partner be obsessed with sports or money?
  • Would you rather your best friend’s approval of your partner, or your dad’s?
  • Would you rather work together or go to the same gym?
  • Would you rather go on an afternoon date to the movies or a walk in the park?

Deep Would You Rather Questions

Deep questions help you learn your partner’s true values and what they want out of life.

These can be a great conversation starter for any issues you have wanted to discuss.

  • Would you rather have a high-paying job you hate or a low-paying job you love?
  • Would you rather lose all of your memories or be unable to make new ones?
  • Would you rather marry the love of your life or have your dream career?
  • Would you rather be 25 for the rest of your life or 50?
  • Would you rather know your cause of death or the date you will die?
  • Would you rather have 10 children or no children at all?
  • Would you rather lose the last years memories or the last years earnings?
  • Would you rather have kids or not?
  • Would you rather get married blindly, having never seen them before, or be together forever but never get married?
  • Would you rather your partner forget your birthday, or plan a surprise party with your least favorite relatives?
  • Would you rather spend an agreed figure on your wedding or travel for 6 months?
  • Would you rather date someone 10 years older than you, or your age?
  • Would you rather never have kids, or have kids at 16?
  • Would you rather never get a marriage proposal, or be proposed to, and then be told it’s a joke?
  • Would you rather never be able to see your partner on big occasions like New Year’s Eve, Christmas Day, Valentine’s Day, and Thanksgiving, and see them every other day in the year, or the other way around?
  • Would you rather spend a set amount of money decorating and painting your apartment or buy a new apartment?
  • Would you rather rent out an expensive apartment forever, or pay off a highly expensive mortgage for a house together?

Vacation Would You Rather Question

  • Would you rather go abroad or stay local for a week off?
  • Would you rather the country or a city break together?
  • Would you rather go on vacation somewhere really cold or super hot?
  • Would you rather get all dressed up for an evening on vacation or have a cozy night in your favorite pajamas?
  • Would you rather do a crazy adventure vacation or to the beach?
  • Would you rather go on vacation spontaneously, or plan it years in advance?
  • Would you rather go wild camping or on a luxury city vacation?
  • Would you rather go on vacation with all your friends or your family, if you’re going with your partner?

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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