Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy

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So you’ve got your eye on a guy! He’s cute, he’s funny, he’s charming – how do you make him yours? Well before you can find out if he’s into you or not, you need to let him know that you’re into him.

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But telling a guy that you’re into him outright and upfront isn’t always the best move. Sometimes being too upfront can scare him off. So our suggestion? Flirt it up! 

You can drop your crush some hints that you are interested by asking them some flirty questions for your crush. Not only will this drop a hint, but it can also give you an inclination as to whether or not they are interested in you back.

If they seem flirtatious back, that’s a great sign! If the conversation is a dud, you know it’s time to move on.

If you’re already in a relationship, try these flirty questions to ask your boyfriend.

Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy

Here are 50 flirty questions that you can ask a guy to find out if he’s interested:

  1. What physical features are you most attracted to in a girl? (This opens up the floodgates to allow him to compliment you and your attributes).
  1. What do you look for in a potential girlfriend? (This allows you to see if you’re a good fit for what he’s looking for)
  1. What do you like to do in your spare time? (Maybe he’d like to do something with you sometime?)
  1. What does your dream date look like? (Maybe you can dream together)
  1. What would you take a girl to do on a first date? (This opens up the opportunity for him to ask you on a date).
  1. What’s your favorite ice cream flavor? (This opens up the opportunity for him to ask you to go for ice cream)
  1. What do you think about Public Displays of Affection? (This will help you determine if you’re compatible).
  1. Do you believe in love at first sight? (Hopefully he’ll say “I do now that I met you”)
  1. What’s your sign? (If you believe in astrology, you can then compare your astrological compatibility).
  1. Who’s your celebrity crush? (Maybe they’ll say someone who resembles you!)

  1. Do you believe in soulmates? (This can help to determine whether you think similarly)
  1. If you were stranded on an island, what 3 things would you take? (Hopefully they say you!)
  2. Do you have any deal breakers in a relationship? (This will help you learn what they are looking for in a partner – and what they’re not).
  1. What’s your favorite movie? (A chance to bond over similar interests).
  1. Are there any movies in the theaters that you want to see right now? (This opens up the opportunity to ask you on a date).
  1. What does your perfect day look like? (Hopefully it involves seeing you at some point!)
  1. What’s the quickest way to your heart? (Make sure you take notes for future references).
  1. What’s your worst dating story? (This might not seem “flirty” but it will give the two of you a chance to bond over horror stories – we all have one)
  1. Do you have any couples that you aspire to be like? (This question can allow your communication to move to a deeper and more personal level).
  1. Do you believe in fate? (This can let you more into their head to learn how they feel about love and romantic relationships).

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  1. What’s your love language? (Again, take notes!)
  1. What are you most passionate about? (A question to learn more about who they are).
  1. What are you up to right now? (A super simple question that allows them to say something like, “wish you were here”)
  1. Are you a boxer or briefs kind of guy? (Starting to turn up the heat a little bit).
  1. Do you sleep in pajamas? Underwear? Or in your birthday suit? (Again, turning up the spice). 
  1. What are you wearing right now? (A classic) 
  1. What was your first thought about me? (Paving the way for some flattering compliments).
  1. Is there anyone you’re crushing on right now? (Hopefully they say you!)
  1. What do you think about marriage? (This question will help you determine if you’re on the same page, so that you can back out early if you’re not). 
  1. What are your thoughts on having kids? (Again, this helps you to see if you’re on the same page with what you want in the future. If you’re not on the same page, you might want to consider a friendship option). 

  1. Where do you see yourself in 10 years from now? (Another question to see if your goals are aligning).
  1. Are you close with your family? (A good chance to learn about their family values and to go a little deeper with your conversations). 
  1. Do you kiss on the first date? (Hint, hint!) 
  1. Do you like to text? (Offering him to ask for your number).
  1. Do you like to cuddle? (With any luck, the two of you will be cuddling soon!)
  1. Do you enjoy massages? (Maybe they’d like one from you)
  1. Describe the perfect kiss? (You might need this information in the future)
  1. How long into a relationship should you wait for “Netflix and Chill”? (Are you on the same page?)
  1. What’s your biggest turn-off? (Hopefully it’s not a habit that you have!) 
  1. What’s your biggest turn-on? (Note taken…)

  1. Tell me a secret? (Hopefully it’s saucy).
  1. I’m trying to decide what to wear tomorrow. What color do you think looks best on me? (Asking a man for their opinion will make him feel validated).
  1. Do you go for girls based on their looks or their minds? (Make sure he knows you have both).
  1. Are you a big spoon or a little spoon? (It’s important to know!) 
  1. What are you thinking about right now? (Hopefully he says you)
  1. How are you still single? (Let’s you know that you think he’s awesome and don’t understand why he’s not taken).
  1. How often do you like to have sex in a relationship? (This can get his mind racing!)
  1. Truth or dare? (Now he can ask you some racy questions too!)
  1. Are you looking for a relationship? (Obviously, this is a must know. If you’re looking for commitment and he’s not, time to move on!) 

Of course, guys aren’t always good at taking a hint. So sometimes we just need to be a little straightforward:

  1. Would you like to take me on a date? 

Asking flirty questions can be an exciting and effective way to deepen a connection and spark a romantic interest with a guy. By engaging in playful and intriguing conversations, you not only get to know him on a deeper level but also create a fun and flirtatious atmosphere.

It’s important to remember to be confident, respectful, and attentive to his responses. Whether you’re looking to start a new relationship or spice up an existing one, flirty questions can serve as a powerful tool to ignite chemistry and create lasting connections.

So go ahead and embrace your playful side, ask those intriguing questions, and let the sparks fly!

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