Fun, Personal & Deep “Get To Know You Questions” For Couples

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We’re about to share some fun Get To Know You Questions you can play in any relationship. It’s a great relationship question game you can try with someone you’re coupling up with.

Getting to know someone new can be fun and exciting, but it can also be a little intimidating.

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What do you talk about? What questions should you ask? Whether you’re getting to know a new friend, a date, or someone else, there’s lots of things that you can talk about.

And you know we’ve got your back! So here’s 110 questions to ask someone new when you’re just getting to know more about them. 

Another fun round to play, if you’ve been together a while is our how well do you know me questions game!

101 Get to Know You Questions:

General Get To Know You Questions:

  1. How old are you? 
  2. When is your birthday?
  3. What’s your zodiac sign? 
  4. What are your parents’ names?
  5. Are you close with your grandparents?
  6. Do you have any siblings?
  7. What’s your favorite food?
  8. What’s your favorite type of music/band?
  9. What’s your favorite color?
  10. Where did you/do you go to school?
  11. Where do you work?
  12. What was your first job?
  13. Do you have kids?
  14. Do you have any pets?
  15. Do you go by any nicknames?
  16. Where did you grow up?
  17. Tell me about your childhood
  18. What’s the next place on your travel bucket list?
  19. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
  20. What are you afraid of?

Funny Get To Know You Questions:

  1. How many pillows do you sleep with?
  2. What’s your favorite zoo animal?
  3. If you won a million dollars today, how would you spend it?
  4. What’s the longest you’ve been without sleep? Why?
  5. What’s the tallest building you’ve ever been in?
  6. What’s the worst nightmare you’ve ever had?
  7. Tell me a random fact about yourself
  8. What’s your hidden talent?
  9. What’s your most embarrassing moment?
  10. What’s your go-to karaoke song?
  11. If you could time travel, what decade would you go to?
  12. If you could have dinner with anyone, dead or alive, who would you have dinner with?
  13. Do you believe in ghosts?
  14. Do you believe in UFOs?
  15. What’s something you couldn’t go a full day without?
  16. Do you have any irrational fears?
  17. If you could have one superpower, what power would you choose?
  18. If you could change places with anyone for a week, who would you choose?
  19. If you could go back in time and change something, what would you change?
  20. If you could talk to your pet, what do you think they’d say about you?

Deep Get To Know You Questions:

  1. What motivates you to work hard?
  2. What makes you angry?
  3. What do you consider the lowest part of your life?
  4. What is your biggest fear in life?
  5. What’s your biggest insecurity?
  6. If you could change one thing about your life, what would you change?
  7. What do you consider to be your biggest accomplishment?
  8. What’s a bad habit that you have?
  9. What do you think other people say about you?
  10. If anything ever happened to you, what would you want people to remember?
  11. Who is someone in your life that you couldn’t imagine living without?
  12. Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years from now?
  13. What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone before?
  14. What are your political views?
  15. Do you believe in any conspiracy theories?
  16. How do you deal with anger?
  17. What is the best way to comfort you when you’re sad?
  18. What do people underestimate about you?
  19. What’s your greatest passion in life?
  20. Are you where you want to be in your life at this point in time?

Random Get To Know You Questions: 

  1. What makes you laugh?
  2. What’s the craziest, most random thing you would do if you won the lottery?
  3. If you were to volunteer your time, what organization would you volunteer for?
  4. Would you ever consider adopting a child?
  5. If you could do absolutely anything today (without limits), what would you do?
  6. If you were to star in a movie about your life, what would the title be?
  7. If you were to star in a movie about your life, who would play you?
  8. What do you listen to in the car?
  9. Have you ever re-gifted something? What was it?
  10. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
  11. What are your religious beliefs?
  12. How many pillows do you sleep with?
  13. Do you believe in karma?
  14. What’s the last book you read?
  15. Any podcasts you recommend listening to?
  16. What’s something that you just can’t seem to wrap your brain around?
  17. Have you ever had a secret admirer?
  18. Have you ever had a stalker?
  19. What’s your favorite fast food chain?
  20. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?

Try our how well do you know your partner game, our have you ever questions list or never have I ever questions for couples.

Get To Know You Questions for Couples

  1. What’s the craziest place you’ve been on a date?
  2. What is your favorite way to feel loved?
  3. What is your relationship dealbreaker?
  4. What’s your idea of the perfect date?
  5. What’s your favorite thing about me?
  6. Have you ever had your heart broken?
  7. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
  8. Have you ever been cheated on?
  9. What do you think makes you a good partner?
  10. What qualities do you look for in a partner?
  11. What type of things do you consider romantic?
  12. What is your love language?
  13. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  14. Do you believe in soul mates?
  15. What do you find sexiest about me?
  16. Do you consider yourself a jealous person?
  17. Do you consider infidelity a deal breaker in any situation?
  18. Where do you want to be in 10 years from now?
  19. Do you want to have children?
  20. Do you see us being together long term?
  21. What was your relationship like with your ex?
  22. If I were to ask your ex what they thought about you, what would they say?
  23. What would your ex say was your worst quality?
  24. Are you friends with any of your ex’s?
  25. Do you believe men and women can be “just friends”?
  26. What makes you feel secure in a relationship?
  27. What do you consider “cheating” in a relationship?
  28. Is there anything you need from me that you’re not currently receiving?
  29. What kind of parent do you think you’ll be?
  30. What would you like to do on our next date?

You can always take a list from our questions games like:
Juicy questions to ask your partner
Deep questions to ask
Questions for your boyfriend
Questions to ask your girlfriend

You can use each of these questions as a starter reference to get to know each other better. Let the questions flow wherever they flow, and then if you start to find yourself in an awkward silence, use another question to continue the conversation. 

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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