How To Write A Love Letter To Your Boyfriend {& Love Letter Example}

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“Happy Birthday Princess, we get old and get used to each other. We think alike. We read each other’s minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes we take each other for granted. But once in a while, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much.”

Johnny Cash to June Carter

This may be one of the most famous love letters ever written – and how truly romantic it is! 

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Ever since the introduction of the text message, love letters seem to be lost in time. But in our opinion, that makes it an even more romantic thing to do.

So if you’re looking for a way to show your man that you love him – this could be exactly what you need to do!

Why Write Your Man A Love Letter?

Today’s communications are so impersonal. Yes, you can tell him you love him through a flirty text, but it’s very detached.

A love letter is something that you can leave for your partner or give it to them directly. I love letters that give you the opportunity to let it all out.

When you’re writing a love letter, it comes from the heart.

Instead of just picking up the phone and writing a quick message (like these “I miss you” texts), a love letter requires you to take time out of your day.

It shows your partner that your relationship is a priority. It shows them that your feelings for them are strong and worth writing about. 

A love letter gives you the chance to say everything you want to say in one spot. It’s pouring your emotions onto a piece of paper.

And your man will feel your love for him as he reads it. 

Plus, a love letter lasts forever.

So many forms of communication today are disposable.

A love letter is something that you can keep and pass on to your children and grandchildren. 

If you don’t have time to write a full love letter, or if you want to write some short and sweet notes to your boyfriend in between, that is always a great way to make him fall in love with you even more.

Why are Love Letters so Romantic?

Love letters are focused purely on one thing – your love and admiration for your partner.

It gives you an opportunity to tell your man why you admire and value him, and why you cherish your relationship so much.

A love letter is a confirmation to your partner that your relationship is strong and that your feelings aren’t going anywhere.

And it’s a perfect way to be romantic.

Not only that, but unlike many other forms of communication that you can share with friends, family, and co-workers, a love letter is something that is shared just between the two of you.

It’s personal.

Unless you choose to share, no one else will read this letter. It’s something that’s purely between the two of you – and that’s romantic.  

But I’m Not Good With Words?

Here’s the best thing about love letters – you don’t have to be good with words to write one.

As long as your feelings are raw and vulnerable, the words will just come. You don’t have to be a poet to make a love letter special.

All you have to do is pour your feelings onto paper and the writing will do itself. 

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How to Write a Love Letter to Your Boyfriend

Okay, so let’s get to the point – how do you write a love letter to your man? 

How To Start A Love Letter For Him

Just as you would with any letter, start your love letter with a greeting. Of course, this greeting will be slightly different than that of other letters because it’s more personal.

Start with something like “dear the love of my life” or “to the man I love with my whole heart”. 

If you prefer to save the love language for the body of your love letter, you could start it with a greeting like, “to my babe” or use a cute nickname that you use for him. 

Ideas to start with:

  • My dearest [His Name],
  • Hey [His Name],
  • To the love of my life,
  • My sweet [His Name],
  • Darling [His Name],
  • My forever love,
  • Dear [His Name],
  • To my soulmate,
  • Hey there, handsome,
  • My beloved [His Name],

  • To the man who stole my heart,
  • My amazing partner,
  • Dearest one,
  • Hey babe,
  • My heart and soul,
  • To the most special person in my life,
  • My knight in shining armor,
  • My one and only,
  • Hey love,
  • To the man I adore.

What To Say In A Love Letter

Okay, now’s the chance to say everything you want to say. We have one tip – be vulnerable.

So often in relationships we close ourselves off to vulnerability. It’s something that’s difficult for many people.

But that’s what a love letter is all about – vulnerability. So be prepared to pour your heart onto this paper. 

You can start by telling your man why you’re writing the letter.

Why did you all of a sudden have a desire to tell him your feelings? Is it because you have a difficult time being vulnerable in real life? Or maybe you don’t express yourself enough?

Perhaps you are feeling extra appreciative of him and just want to do something sweet for him. Or maybe you’re just feeling an overwhelming amount of affection towards him lately and want to let him know.

Whatever the case, start by letting him know why you decided to write the letter.

The rest of the letter is open to tell him whatever your heart desires.

You could talk about memories of the two of you that you hold special in your heart, or memories that you hope to make in the future.

Or you could simply talk about how you’re feeling and your emotions towards him.

This is a good time to tell your partner why you love them so much, what you appreciate about them, or how your life has changed since you met them. 

Don’t worry too much about what to write here. If your feelings are genuine, as soon as you start to write, your words will just flow. 

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How To End A Love Letter

Close your love letter with a warm and loving glance towards the future. You can try something like:

  • “I can’t wait to spend my future with you”
  • “I can’t wait to see what the future holds”
  • “My love for you is never-ending”
  • “I will love you forever”

Or close with warm words of love:

  • “Thank you for being mine”
  • “You are loved and appreciated”
  • “Thank you for being the person you are”
  • “Yours always and forever,”
  • “With all my heart,”
  • “I will love you forever,”
  • “You are my forever and always,”
  • “You are my soulmate,”
  • “With love that knows no bounds,”
  • “I am forever yours,”
  • “With all my love,”
  • “Always and forever yours,”
  • “You are the love of my life,”

  • “I can’t wait to spend forever with you,”
  • “I love you more and more each day,”
  • “Yours truly,”
  • “I love you to the moon and back,”
  • “You have my heart forever,”
  • “My love for you is infinite,”
  • “You complete me,”
  • “All my love,”
  • “You are my everything,”

  • “I will always cherish you,”
  • “Forever in love with you,”
  • “You are my best friend and soulmate,”
  • “You have my heart and soul,”
  • “With all the love in my heart,”
  • “Until the end of time, I will love you.”

Deep Love Letters For Him

Love Letter Example 1

Hey babe,

I’m writing this letter because there’s something I need to tell you. I know I tell you every day, but I just can’t help it – I’m head over heels in love with you.

You are the sunshine in my life, the peanut butter to my jelly, and the missing puzzle piece that I didn’t even know I needed. You bring so much joy, laughter, and love into my life, and I can’t imagine going a single day without you by my side.

When I’m with you, I feel like I’m on top of the world. You make me feel so loved, so cherished, and so appreciated. You make me want to be a better person, to live my life to the fullest, and to never take a single moment for granted.

I love the way you make me laugh, even on my darkest days. I love the way you hold my hand, kiss me on the forehead, and tell me that everything is going to be okay. I love the way you look at me, as if I’m the only person in the world that matters.

You make me feel beautiful, even on the days when I feel anything but. You love me for who I am, flaws and all, and I couldn’t be more grateful.

I know we’ve had our fair share of ups and downs, but through it all, my love for you has only grown stronger. I will always stand by your side, support you, and love you with all my heart.

So, my darling, I want you to know that I am yours forever. You are my person, my soulmate, and the love of my life. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my days making memories with you, laughing with you, and loving you more and more each day.

Forever and always,

[Your Name]

Love Letter Example 2

Dear [His Name],

As I sit down to write this letter, I am overwhelmed with emotions that I can’t seem to express in words. But I am going to try, because I want you to know just how much you mean to me.

From the moment I met you, I knew there was something special about you. It was as if we were meant to find each other in this crazy world. And now that we’ve been together for some time, my feelings for you have only grown stronger.

I want you to know that you are the most important person in my life. You are my rock, my best friend, and my soulmate. I can’t imagine a future without you in it. You make me laugh, you make me feel safe, and you make me feel loved in a way that I never thought was possible.

There are so many things that I love about you. I love the way you smile, the way you laugh, and the way you look at me with those eyes that see right through me. I love the way you hold my hand, the way you wrap your arms around me, and the way you kiss me.

I love the way you challenge me to be a better person, to strive for my dreams, and to never give up. You inspire me every day to be the best version of myself, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

I know that we’ve had our ups and downs, but I want you to know that through it all, my love for you has never wavered. I will stand by you, support you, and love you through thick and thin, for as long as I live.

So, my love, please know that you are cherished, adored, and deeply loved. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us, but I know that with you by my side, anything is possible.

Yours always and forever,

[Your Name]

Love Letter For Boyfriend Example 3

My dearest [His Name],

It’s hard to put into words just how much you mean to me. Every time I try to express my feelings for you, my heart swells with love and my words get all jumbled up. But I’ll do my best, because you deserve to know just how much I adore you.

When I met you, I had no idea that you would become such an important part of my life. But here we are, months/years later, and I can’t imagine my life without you. You have become my best friend, my confidante, and my partner in every sense of the word.

You have shown me a love that I never knew was possible. You love me despite my flaws, my insecurities, and my imperfections. You make me feel beautiful, cherished, and cherished, every single day.

When I am with you, I feel like I am home. I feel safe and loved, and I know that no matter what happens in life, we will always have each other.

You have brought so much joy and happiness into my life. I am constantly amazed by your kindness, your generosity, and your selflessness. You have a heart of gold, and I am so lucky to be able to share my life with you.

I love the way you look at me, the way you hold me, and the way you make me laugh. I love the sound of your voice, the feel of your touch, and the way you know exactly what I need, even before I do.

You have given me so much, and I promise to give you everything in return. I will love you fiercely, protect you always, and stand by you no matter what life throws our way.

My love for you grows stronger with every passing day. I am so grateful for you, and I will cherish you forever.

Yours always and forever,

[Your Name]

And remember, don’t stress out over writing a love letter. It’s the thought of the letter that is so romantic.

Even if you aren’t great with words, your man will recognize your effort – and that’s special. 

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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