Romantic Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend For A Deeper Connection

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Looking for the best Romantic Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend? Sometimes intimacy can be hard. Finding opportunities to ask questions – even relatively simple questions you just want to know the answers to – can also be hard. However, one great way to break down boundaries in your relationship is to sit down and just ask each other a list of relationship questions, no strings attached.

Here you’ll find a list of romantic questions to ask your boyfriend to help you grow closer together. Feel free to pick and choose from the list or simply sit down and answer them together.

There’s no better way to increase your intimacy than to sit down and have a long, no-strings-attached talk. Plus, a lot of these questions are really fun, and can only improve your relationship. 

Romantic Questions to Ask Your Partner: 

  1. What is your favorite memory of our relationship?
  2. What’s something about your life that you’re glad is over?
  3. Tell me about your longest relationship. Why did it end?
  4. What is something you always put off doing? 
  5. Is there a specific taste or food that reminds you of me? 

  1. A specific scent? 
  2. What’s your favorite thing that we do in bed? 
  3. Would you ever want to get married?
  4. Have children? 
  5. How many? Boys or girls? 

  1. What is the first thing you would do if you won the lottery?
  2. What is your favorite thing about me? 
  3. What do you think makes for a happy relationship? 
  4. What is your favorite thing that I do for you? 
  5. Do you believe in fate or destiny or a higher power, or do you believe that fate is determined by our choices?

  1. What movie reminds you of our relationship?
  2. Is there anything that you would consider unforgivable? 
  3. Which of your parents do you have the best relationship with? 
  4. Which one do you think you’re the most like? 
  5. Is there something you’ve always wanted to do, but been too scared to?

  1. Do you think money can buy happiness? Why or why not? 
  2. What would you say is the best thing that has ever happened to you? 
  3. What’s my best physical feature (or your favorite)? 
  4. What’s your dream job, if there were no limitations?
  5. If you could pick any year of your life to do differently or just relive, which would it be and why?

  1. If you could only accomplish one thing before you die, what would you want it to be? 
  2. What’s your biggest pet peeve? 
  3. Do you like being romantic/intimate more in the mornings or at night? 
  4. What are you most proud of? 
  5. If you could pass down one message to your younger self, what would that be? 

  1. Do you prefer hugging or kissing?
  2. What would you say is your deepest, darkest fear?
  3. What is something that really makes you feel alive?
  4. When was the moment you knew you wanted to be with me? 
  5. How would you describe your relationship with your family?

  1. Describe your perfect day. 
  2. Do you get jealous when you see me talking to other people?
  3. Describe your relationship with your best friend.
  4. Do you feel like you make decisions primarily based on logic or on emotion?
  5. Do you ever have dreams about me? 
  1. Tell me about some of them. 
  2. What’s your love language?
  3. What do you think we need to work on in our relationship?
  4. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert? 
  5. If you could change anything about your childhood, what would it be?
  1.  Do you think you want to raise your kids the same way you were raised, or differently?
  2. What would you want to do differently?
  3. How do you like to be treated/taken care of when you’re sick?
  4. Do you hold grudges?
  5. What was your first impression of me? 
  1. What do you love about our relationship?
  2. When did you realize you wanted to kiss me?
  3. What was going through your head?
  4. Do you think it’s possible for a relationship to recover from cheating?
  5. If you could describe our relationship in one word, what word would that be?

  1. What’s your favorite non-sexual activity we do together?
  2. Did you have a role model growing up? Who was it and why?
  3. What did you want to be when you grew up when you were a child?
  4. What’s one way that we complement each other well?
  5. What’s one similarity between us that you love?

  1. Is there a sexual fantasy you’ve always wanted to experience?
  2. What about me made you fall in love with me?
  3. What’s your favorite holiday?
  4. What’s your favorite memory associated with a holiday?
  5. What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

  1. What’s one thing you would like for us to do together that you’ve never experienced?
  2. What’s something I could do for you that would make you really happy?
  3. Where is your favorite place to go on a date?
  4. What is something I do that makes you feel most taken care of?
  5. Do you have a favorite book?

  1. What’s one thing you’ve always been scared to ask me?
  2. Tell me about any pets you had growing up.
  3. What’s your happiest childhood memory?
  4. What’s your favorite part of my personality?
  5. If our relationship suddenly ended, what would you miss the most?

  1. What makes you feel better after a long, hard day?
  2. When was your most vulnerable moment?
  3. Where is your favorite place to go on vacation?
  4. What is one secret you’ve always wanted to tell me, but havent?
  5. What’s one thing you always wanted as a kid, but never got? 

  1. What’s your favorite way to give or receive affection? 
  2. What is one thing your parents taught you about relationships?
  3. Did/do you sleep with stuffed animals?
  4. If you could change one thing in our relationship, what would it be? 
  5. What is my best personality trait?

  1. What is one personality trait you want to develop in yourself?
  2. Do you believe in soul mates?
  3. What is one thing you’d like to do with me more?
  4. What is the best gift you have ever received?
  5. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10? 20?

  1. What is one thing you would want me to do for you?
  2. Why do you think we are good together?
  3. Do you have anything you want to improve in your life?
  4. Anything you want to improve in our relationship?
  5. What is your ultimate dream date?

  1. Where would you want to go on a honeymoon?
  2. Do you have a bucket list?
  3. What is on your bucket list?
  4. What was your favorite adventure we went on together?
  5. What is the most important thing in life to you?

Create Your Own Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

Take an afternoon together to ask each other some of these intimate questions, or simply ask one or two as conversation starters now and again to start off a conversation and let it flow naturally. Some of the best conversations come from your own creative ideas generated from others. 

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