100 Reasons Why I Love You Jar: {& Reasons I Love You Book}

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A 100 Reasons Why I Love You Jar is about as romantic as it gets when looking for a thoughtful gift for your partner.

Simply purchase an empty jar and write down 100 reasons why you love your partner on scraps of paper. Place the notes in the jar and seal. Or make it a romantic Reasons I Love You Book!

Texts reads "100 Reasons I Love You Jar" with photo of Jar.

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You can buy a plain jar from a dollar store or buy a version specially made for this purpose. Amazon is a great place to start and has many affordable options, we really like this one.

These jars are a lot of fun to put together and can help you truly appreciate your relationship. They make great gifts for birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine’s day.

Making this gift for your husband or wife? Check out Reasons I Love My Husband and Reasons I Love My Wife for more ideas!

100 Reasons Why I Love You Jar Ideas

  1. You make me laugh every day. 
  2. You are my best friend.
  3. You know just how to cheer me when I’m feeling down.
  4. You are a good father to our children.
  5. We can be silly together.
  6. Seeing you in the best part of my day.
  7. I sleep better when I’m next to you.
  8. You have a heart of gold and treat everyone with kindness.
  9. I love how many things we have in common.
  10. I can be completely myself around you.
  1. You always compliment me and make me feel beautiful.
  2. You’re a great hugger.
  3. You think I’m a great cook and eat everything I make without complaint.
  4. Even after all this time, we still have so much to talk about
  5. You buy me the most thoughtful gifts.
  6. You make me feel special.
  7. You know me better than I know myself.
  8. You support me with my goals and make me feel like I can accomplish anything.
  9. I know you’ve got my back no matter what.
  10. You are a hard worker.
  1. You still take me on amazing dates.
  2. Even the most boring everyday things are fun when I’m doing them with you.
  3. You always look after me when I am sick.
  4. You are considerate and do little things to let me know you are thinking of me.
  5. Our wedding day was the best day of my life.
  6. Your laugh is my favorite sound.
  7. You have soft skin.
  8. You have a great smile.
  9. You are handsome, and I’m as attracted to you now as when we first met!
  10. We have so many wonderful memories together.
  1. … and so many plans for the future!
  2. You give the best hugs.
  3. You help out around the house.
  4. You are adventurous and love to try new things.
  5. I can trust you 100%.
  6. You are an amazing kisser.
  7. My friends love you.
  8. You let me choose what we watch on Netflix.
  9. Your hand fits perfectly in mine.
  10. You teach me new things all the time.
  1. When something good happens, you’re the first person I want to share it with.
  2. You always keep your promises.
  3. You are strong.
  4. You tell me you love me every day.
  5. You know how to calm me down when I’m feeling stressed.
  6. You are one of the smartest people I know.
  7. You make me feel truly happy and at peace.
  8. You accept my bad habits and flaws.
  9. I love how we can do anything together and still have a great time.
  10. Your family feel like my family.
  1. I look forward to growing old with you.
  2. I feel proud to be your partner.
  3. You have your own unique style.
  4. People respect you.
  5. You make me feel like anything’s possible.
  6. You are the kind of person I always dreamed I would end up with. 
  7. You don’t take yourself too seriously.
  8. You send me messages throughout the day to let me know I’m on your mind.
  9. You trust me.
  10. You can always think of a solution to my problems.
  1. You give great advice.
  2. We always seem to be on the same wave length.
  3. You are spontaneous.
  4. You are willing to compromise and find solutions that suit both of us.
  5. You make an effort with my parents.
  6. You give the best back rubs.
  7. I feel like you were made for me.
  8. You still give me butterflies.
  9. You are generous and share all you have with me. 
  10. You always put me first.
  1. You make me feel safe + protected. 
  2. Our relationship is the best thing in my life.
  3. You are my soul mate.
  4. You are a good friend and put a lot of effort into your friendships.
  5. You are open about your feelings and emotions.
  6. You take care of yourself.
  7. I love waking up with you.
  8. You stand up for yourself.
  9. You are a good listener. 
  10. You are my partner in crime.
close up of page on typewriter reads "P.S. I Love You".
  1. You make me want to be a better person.
  2. You have beautiful eyes.
  3. You cook for me when I’m feeling tired.
  4. You still flirt with me even though we have been together for years!
  5. You are a gentleman and always open doors for me.
  6. You always make time for just the two of us.
  7. You are completely committed to our family and me.
  8. I feel like we completely understand each other.
  9. You give me the confidence to try new things.
  10. I can’t imagine what my life would be like without you.
  1. We share inside jokes.
  2. You are successful and good at your job.
  3. You are ‘the one’.
  4. I can trust you always to give your honest opinion.
  5. You are my version of perfect.
  6. The trips and vacations we take together are the most fun I have ever had in my life.
  7. You buy me flowers for no reason.
  8. You can admit when you’re wrong. 
  9. You are creative and come up with amazing ideas.
  10. You love me, unconditionally.

If you need more ideas, you can check out:
101 Words of Affirmation for Him
Words of Affirmation For Her
Describing Words For Someone You Love
Good Morning Message for Him
Sweet Good Morning Messages for Her
Good Night Messages For Him

365 Reasons I Love You Jar

How about making a jar that has one reason you love your partner for each day of the year?! We have a list of 365 Reasons I Love You Ideas for more!

It could be something as simple as “you make me laugh” or “I love the way you take care of me when I’m not feeling well.”

The key is to personalize it so your partner knows that these reasons are specific to them and no one else.

This would be a great project for an anniversary, especially if you’re struggling to find the right words to say!

Reasons I Love You Book Gift Idea

Not feeling the jar idea and want to make a Reasons Why I Love You Book instead?

Making a “Reasons Why I Love You” book for your partner is a thoughtful and personalized gift that can show them how much you care. Here’s how you can make your own:

hands painting the cover of a "reasons I Love you" book.
  1. Start by gathering materials – You will need a notebook or a blank journal, pens, markers, stickers, and any other decorative items you’d like to include.
  2. Brainstorm love note ideas – Take some time to reflect on your relationship and think about what you love most about your partner. Consider their personality traits, the things they do for you, and the moments you’ve shared together. Write down your ideas in a separate document or a piece of paper. (We’ve given you 100 reasons above!) Try to write a love letter for her or love letter for him to get your ideas flowing for more.
  3. Organize your thoughts – Once you have a list of reasons, organize them into categories such as “What I love about your personality,” “Our shared memories,” or “The way you make me feel.” Another idea is to do a whole book of “I love you because…“Why I Love Him” or “Why I Love Her”
  4. Write your reasons – Using your brainstormed ideas and the categories you created, start writing your reasons why you love your partner in the notebook or journal. Write each reason on a separate page, leaving space for any illustrations or decorations you want to add.
  5. Add decorations – Use markers, stickers, or any other decorative items to add a personal touch to each page. You can also include pictures of the two of you or other sentimental items.
  6. Wrap it up – Once you have completed your book, wrap it up with a ribbon or place it in a decorative box. You can also write a heartfelt note to your partner explaining why you made the book and how much they mean to you.

Presenting your “Reasons Why I Love You” book to your partner can be a touching and memorable moment for both of you. It shows that you have taken the time to reflect on your relationship and that you appreciate everything they bring to your life.

Whether you decide on a jar or a book, your partner will absolutely love these special words you have to share all the reasons why you love them. If you want to write a love letter, check out how to start a love letter if you need ideas.

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

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